{HMW} Three questions to ask before the holiday meal chaos begins


Dear Reader,

It's Christmas week, and you're likely facing multiple holiday meals, special treats, family gatherings, and foods that only appear once a year. The pressure to eat everything, enjoy everything, and not "waste" special holiday foods can completely override your body's signals.

Instead of complex rules, focus on three simple principles that support both enjoyment and body awareness.

Principle 1: Permission Without Obligation: Give yourself full permission to eat holiday foods you genuinely want, but release the obligation to eat everything available. You can skip the dishes that don't actually appeal to you, even if they're "traditional" or someone made them specially. Permission means choiceβ€”including the choice to say no.

Principle 2: Pleasure Requires Presence: Holiday foods deserve your full attention to be truly enjoyed. Eating your favorite pie while distracted by conversation or standing in the kitchen means missing the experience you're seeking. When you choose to eat something special, sit down, slow down, and actually taste it. Three fully conscious bites often provide more satisfaction than a whole piece eaten mindlessly.

Principle 3: Honor Your Future Self: Before eating, briefly imagine how you'll feel in two hours. Will this choice leave you energized and satisfied, or uncomfortable and regretful? This is about making decisions that serve both present enjoyment and future wellbeing. Sometimes you'll choose the temporary pleasure despite knowing you'll feel overfull later, and that's okay when it's conscious. The key is awareness, not perfection.

These principles work together to create space for genuine enjoyment without the physical and emotional cost of complete abandon.

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I am wishing all of you a meaningful, nourishing and delicious holiday week!

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Those tiny leaves pack a lot of personality. Thyme has this earthy, slightly minty thing going on with a hint of lemon that makes it weirdly versatile. It works in everything from roasted vegetables to grain bowls to soups where you need a little more depth. Fresh thyme is great, but honestly, dried thyme is one of those herbs that doesn't lose much in translation, so don't stress if fresh isn't happening.

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That's it for me this week. I hope you all have a healthy and happy hump day and Merry Christmas!

Warmly,

Jenny

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